If you’ve read the book “Men are from Mars, Women are from Venus”, you will definitely commiserate with the following:
星星 and me had a heated exchange over whether to install a projector in our new nest.
He wanted it because the small voice in his head has been asking him to buy a projector. WAHAHA… Alrighty, to be serious, he wanted a big screen to play X-box (even though we don’t even own one… yet) Also, it gives a better cinematic experience. Given our spacious living room area, it seemed a waste to not make full use of the space. Since we can have a 70 inch screen, why settle for a 46 inch?
I wanted just a normal tv because I had my doubts on whether a projector will make for good watching. (clear images/vivid colors/resolution) Think about all the slide shows/presentations that you’ve been seeing in the office. Do you really want to have this in place of your tv?? Also, won’t the glare from the sun reduce the visibility?? Don’t really require the cinema effect when watching 午后闲情. Plus plus plus, how many times will we be having frens over for games night a year???
At this point, neither party wanted to give in.
So… the compromise offered by 星星 was that he’ll buy the projector with his own savings and still have a normal LCD/plasma tv.
Sounds good? But no…. stubborn ol’ me is still not happy with this compromise because I find it a waste of money! Why buy 2 tv? Got no money to buy projector now but can tell interior designer to make provisions for it. Meaning that we’ll see one stick poking out of the false ceiling for months. Strange, no?
Not soon after, we visited kikki.K (my pit stop at ION) and I was (as always) dazzled by anything and everything in the shop! I wanted to buy and mount a monthly planner on our new fridge. (see below) That way, we’ll be able to keep track of our activities! And 星星 thinks I’m wasteful and wants to DIY (photocopy on paper and paste magnet on the back)

Monthly Planner

Shopping list
*faints
IT”S NOT THE SAME LOR! Plus this one is infinitely much cheaper than a projector!!! Plus plus plus, at least I’m not a “shoe person” (read: has 100 pairs of shoes) or a “bag person” (read: has 1 bag…. each of LV, Coach, Burberry, Fendi, Gucci and all the other luxury brands)
星星 made a cute comment about how we could possibly fall in love with each other when we clearly have such differing opinions. So my conclusion is that some men just love projectors and some women just like kikki.K. They need not necessarily like or understand why their other halves behave this way sometimes. It’s important to come to peace with it. *oommmmmmm* (ala meditation)
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